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Mom and Dad, Don't Worry, I'll Still Call

A Teen's Guide to Making Sure Their Parents Don't Freak Out After Graduating High School

May 4, 2023

As a teenager, you are probably super excited for the day when you graduate from high school and head off to college or start your career. You may feel excited about the new opportunities and experiences that await you, and eager to spread your wings and fly. But as you prepare to take this next step in your life, it's important to remember that this can be a difficult time for your parents as well.

For many parents, the high school graduation of their child marks a major milestone in their lives. It's a moment that they have been anticipating for years, and one that can be filled with mixed emotions. On one hand, they are proud of all that you have accomplished and excited to see what the future holds for you. On the other hand, they may feel a sense of loss as they realize that you will soon be leaving home and beginning a new chapter in your life.

As a teenager, it's important to understand how difficult this can be for your parents. They have spent years pouring their hearts and souls into raising you, teaching you right from wrong, and instilling in you the values and beliefs that they hold dear. They have watched you grow and mature, and have been there for you through all of life's ups and downs. Now, as you prepare to leave the nest, they may feel a sense of emptiness or loss.

So what can you do to help your parents through this difficult time? Here are a few tips:

1. Acknowledge their feelings. Let your parents know that you understand how difficult this can be for them, and that you appreciate all that they have done to help you get to this point in your life. Express your gratitude and love, and assure them that you will stay in touch and keep them updated on your progress.

2. Stay connected. Even if you will be living far away from home, make an effort to stay connected with your parents. Schedule regular phone calls or video chats, send them text messages or emails, and let them know what's going on in your life. This will help them feel connected to you and reassured that you are doing well.

3. Pray for them. As a Christian, you know the power of prayer. Take time to pray for your parents, asking God to give them peace, comfort, and strength during this transition. Pray that they will feel God's presence and guidance as they navigate this new phase of their lives.

4. Lean on God. Finally, remember that God is with you and your parents every step of the way. Lean on Him for guidance, wisdom, and strength as you move forward into this new chapter of your life. Trust that He will guide and protect you and your parents, and that He has a plan for your lives that is greater than anything you can imagine.

By acknowledging their feelings, staying connected, praying for them, and leaning on God, you can help ease their transition and show them how much you love and appreciate them.

- John